Sunday, June 05, 2005

....Pain comes in multiple packages...

The weekend is here..the one I was dreading the entire week...entire month..in fact for the past 11 months..

Packing has got to be one of the worst tasks that was developed as a result of the want to improve one's livelihood, or due to the dire need to change one's lifestyle....and house...

It's a cumbersome, boring and an extremely tiring job ..specially for women. We tend to have things proportional to the area in which we live. So if there is a bigger room or house, our possessions multiply accordingly. Every-time we go shopping, we unfailingly manage to spot another beauty that would fit perfectly well in a corner that is already blessed with four or five other smiling artifacts..and we then sigh seeing the amount of stuff waiting to be stored away...yet the story repeats..again ..and again...

Also our sentimental nature keeps us from throwing away almost anything..however old, tattered or meaningless..just when you think you managed to do a good work cleaning up, a memory pops up its head, in a form that is no longer treasured or errrmm ....recognizable....

But I've learnt to live with that trait....coz it's complimented with another quality..the quality to plan..not the purchases but organizing the packing..

I made a list of everything which I absolutely and definitely won't need to use immediately, in order of preference and importance, and decided to start packing from the top.

In the process I made an important discovery. The maximum amount of time that I spend with any of the things I own is when I'm packing or unpacking them, for the simple reason that I don't even know I possess them for the rest of the year..there were things from my school hostel, university lab work, old friends, torn phone bills, post-it-notes with shopping lists scribbled on them, pens and highlighters with dried ink [i'm a stationary junkie!], various badges for charity work, little souvenirs and gifts from people which are way too ugly to keep yet again[just to make them happy], calculators [which are now historic and probably have an antique value], empty nail polish bottles, millions and millions of teeny weeny free face creams, masks, body mists, hand and nail creams, face wash, scrubs, toothpaste tubes, etc etc collected over the various shopping trips, which added to the numbers of my other significantly large belongings..

Finally, the boxes were brought out, the bags we pulled out of the storage space..and the long-avoided, much-awaited ordeal began..

I took a deep breath and opened the doors to my treasures...the result....

Whatever was neatly kept inside my wardrobes and drawers now occupies a unique shiny spot outside...in the exact form and pile size as before...

Magic? or did my planning just pinch me hard?

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

well!!! all i can say is 'no pain no gain'..so get down to work girl if u want to travel soon and sort out n throw away stuff u havent used for the past one year or more...u'll be a happier person if u do....i agree packing can be a pain ( asking me ..i have packed n unpacked i think 9 or 10 times ..and that too whole housefuls )but i find moving house is the only sure shot way of discarding unused stuff forever..so go on , dont think..just throw

Shuchi said...

Thats the problem...the 'to be thrown' pils just keeps reducing everytime I give it a second look....

"what if i feel like wearing it later..and I don't have it anymore"...says the devil...

Anonymous said...

Reminds me...

A friend of mine I met yesterday was dressed really badly---as if just out of bed. Turns out, the reason as that she knew she was leaving for a two week vacation today and did not want to wear anything that she might want to take with her. And that list happenned to include everything decent in her wardrobe.

Anonymous said...

thot i would share with u ....was watching a TV program called'kosmic chat' about tarot card reading n all n the female on the show said ...if u get rid of the clutter in ur house/room/cupboard/office etc etc you also gets rid of the clutter in ur mind....so dont keep stuff u dont need and see the difference

minerva said...

dear Shuchi,
i can totally identify with what U've been saying;) - the duty/chore-part, the sentiment (plus large dollops of nostalgia too) etc.

Nice one.
All the Best with the rearranging!
Take care*